Monday, March 12, 2012
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Introducing Toys to Your Partner
While sex toys can bring so much fun and enjoyment into the bedroom, you would be surprised to know that many couples have yet to incorporate such an adventure into their sex lives with their partners. How could this possibly be that so many couples are missing out? The truth is often times, one partner is afraid to ask the other about whether or not it is something they would like to try. If you happen to be the partner who would like to ask your significant other their opinion, follow these three steps to get your answer . . .
Step One – Do Your Research
Granted, this doesn’t mean to spend hours upon hours printing out options of sex toys and what they do, as this may make you appear as though you are obsessed, but instead, minimally research the options. If, for example, you have something specific in mind, start there. If you want to start with something as simple as a lubricant, get to know the different types. This way, if your partner has a concern or question such as what if the oil causes a break out, or if it is edible, you will know how to answer. Read up online or in books about products that interest you and products that your partner may be interested in.
Step Two – Have the Conversation
Before making any sort of purchase, sit down with your partner and talk about it. Include your findings, why you wish to use them, and for what. Do not go out and purchase an item and expect that your partner will be accepting (unless they have specified that this was something they wanted). They will need to agree first. During such a conversation, start out little. Consider yourselves as beginners and discuss what toys you would both be comfortable with. Not only do you want your partner to be comfortable, but you should be comfortable as well. Talk it out, come to an agreement, and if all goes well, move to the next step.
Step Three – Making a Choice and Make the Purchase
If you have not made a detailed choice with your partner yet, do so. Sit down together and go over your options. You may have decided you both want to incorporate some sort of a vibrator into the bedroom, but which kind? Shop around and see what is available. Consider things such as price, quality, cleanliness, safety, and so on. Since this is your first purchase as a couple, you may want to stay away from toys that are too complex or too edgy. Keep in mind that with some toys, you will need to work up to them. In this step, research your particular item even further and come to an agreement on which one you will choose.
Introducing sex toys to your partner is like any other decision making process in your relationship. It needs to be approached in a mature, serious manner that allows you to both communicate what you’re feeling and why. Your partner may shut the idea down immediately, but like with other areas of your relationship, you can hopefully come to a compromise.
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